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Redefining Divorce: A Fresh Approach to Healthier Future

Writer's picture: Charene SutherlandCharene Sutherland

Divorce is often seen as a battle—a painful, drawn-out process that leaves emotional and financial scars. The traditional litigation route not only prolongs the pain but can also lead to devastating outcomes, both financially and emotionally. At Healthy Future Divorce Mediation and Coaching, we believe that divorce doesn’t have to be this way. Our innovative approach aims to transform the divorce process into one that heals rather than destroys, repurposes relationships rather than fractures them, and avoids the pitfalls of courtroom conflict.


The Hidden Costs of Litigation


In Alberta and Saskatchewan, divorcing couples are court-ordered to attend mediation. While mediation is a step in the right direction, the way it’s currently integrated into the system is flawed. Court-ordered mediation is often seen as an afterthought, a box to be checked off while the primary focus remains on litigation. Worse, couples are required to pay for mediation on top of their legal fees, creating an extra financial burden. By the time a couple has gone through this process, they’re often emotionally drained, financially depleted, and further divided.


A client recently reached out to us and shared, “I wish you would have been in business for my divorce. I paid my whole settlement to my lawyer and our family is broken.” This heartbreaking reality is all too common, and it’s exactly what we aim to prevent.


As founders of Healthy Future Divorce, we’ve both walked this difficult path. Our own divorces created such animosity that our co-parenting relationships with our ex-spouses were detrimentally affected for years. The traditional approach to divorce not only drained us financially, but it also drained us emotionally, making it harder to heal and move forward in a way that was best for our children. This personal experience fuels our passion to change the process and provide a better way forward.


A Better Way Forward: Mediation First


At Healthy Future Divorce, we put mediation at the center of the process, not as a court-mandated obligation but as the primary path to resolution. Mediation allows couples to maintain control over the decisions that impact their lives and their children’s lives, while keeping their financial resources intact. Rather than paying tens of thousands of dollars to lawyers and court fees, we help couples navigate their divorce in a way that’s cost-effective and emotionally mindful.


But our services go beyond just resolving disputes. We also provide coaching to guide you through the emotional, mental, and practical challenges of divorce. One of the biggest problems we’ve seen is that so many people are turning to their lawyers or mediators for emotional support, something that is not within their professional scope. This leads to frustration and wasted resources. Our coaching services bridge that gap, providing the emotional and practical support you need during this challenging time.


Putting Your Family First


Our approach is deeply rooted in the belief that the end of a marriage doesn’t have to mean the end of a family. Divorce, when handled with care and compassion, can repurpose relationships in a way that allows everyone—especially the children—to thrive. Instead of the adversarial mindset of litigation, which often pits spouses against each other creating a toxicity that can extend to, and effect our children, friends, family and even professional relationships as well. We foster an environment where both parties are heard, respected, and able to work toward a shared future.


It’s not just about avoiding court; it’s about avoiding unnecessary conflict, minimizing damage to your relationships, and creating a path forward that benefits everyone involved.


Our Mission


At Healthy Future Divorce, we are committed to changing the divorce process. We’ve seen firsthand the toll litigation can take on families, and we’re determined to offer a better way. As more people in Alberta and Saskatchewan are forced to navigate the complexities of court-ordered mediation alongside expensive legal battles, we stand ready to provide a solution that is less costly, less destructive, and more focused on creating positive outcomes for everyone.


Let us help you unlock your future with a free insight session. Together, we can redefine divorce, repurpose relationships, and rebuild lives.

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